by Tania Henderson | Aug 4, 2021 | Abuse, EMDR, PTSD, Trauma, Uncategorized
In 2018, comedian Adam Cayton-Holland published his first book, Tragedy Plus Time: A Tragi-Comic Memoir, highlighting his experience dealing with the impacts of his sister’s suicide. Cayton-Holland described his books in these words, “If you’re expecting a...
by Tania Henderson | Jul 26, 2021 | Depression, Forgiveness, Self-esteem, Trauma, Uncategorized
“It’s my fault.” Someone feels bad about what happened, most often involving someone they love. It is the mantra of guilt, the emotion that means a wrongdoing has occurred based on a social code. The code may be explicitly stated, such as...
by Tania Henderson | Jun 21, 2021 | Grief, Relationship, Uncategorized
I came across this poem and it struck a deep chord: To Love Someone Long-Term Is to Attend a Thousand Funerals of the People They Used to Be The people they’re too exhausted to be any longer.The people they don’t recognize inside themselves anymore.The people they...
by Tania Henderson | Jun 21, 2021 | Relationship, Self-care, Self-esteem, Uncategorized
“Every time you’re given a choice between disappointing someone else and disappointing yourself, your duty is to disappoint that someone else. Your job throughout your entire life, is to disappoint as many people as it takes to avoid disappointing yourself.”...
by Tania Henderson | May 4, 2021 | Uncategorized
After months of working with two lovely, very patient designers with Willow Bridge Creations, I am happy to announce that the Side By Side website has a brand new look. Please feel free to enjoy these amazing people’s artistic flare, adding mood and color to verbiage...
by Tania Henderson | Apr 14, 2020 | Uncategorized
For some kids, it is the last month of their senior year. They’ve missed going to classes together and hanging out with friends, they’ve lost the chance to experience prom, a spring break school trip, sporting events, concerts, plays, and even had to give...
