by Tania Henderson | Sep 18, 2014 | Anxiety, Depression, Self-care, Self-esteem, Uncategorized
I cannot think of a better tale than the Ugly Duckling http://www.eastoftheweb.com/short-stories/UBooks/UglDuc.shtml to show how our basic sense of goodness can be derailed by shame and rejection.  In the story, a simple mishap of a baby swan inaccurately labeled a...				
					
			
					
				
															
					
					 by Tania Henderson | Jan 18, 2014 | Anxiety, Communication, Depression, Relationship, Uncategorized
  “Failing to plan is planning to fail.”  This statement highlights the importance of taking steps towards being successful so when something comes up, we are in a strong position to handle it.  The following article is one such opportunity.  So...				
					
			
					
				
															
					
					 by Tania Henderson | Apr 14, 2013 | Abuse, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Uncategorized
We usually think of bullying as something that is between kids on the schoolyard.  It is so easy to dismiss as an isolated issue, yet purposefully hurting someone is a human trait that is not limited to some developmental stage.  There are interactions that often...				
					
			
					
				
															
					
					 by Mike Henderson | Jan 13, 2013 | Abuse, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Relationship, Trauma, Uncategorized
There is an idea that seems to endure despite research: people with mental health concerns deserve to be judged. It is believed they either lack self-control, are weak, or are simply undesirable burdens in society. I have even heard people state that the real issue is...				
					
			
					
				
															
					
					 by Tania Henderson | Jul 30, 2012 | Abuse, Anxiety, Depression, Grief, PTSD, Self-care, Trauma, Uncategorized
Rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. (Romans 5:3-4) If you are in the middle of a struggle as you read these words, don’t be surprised if you have a sudden urge to throw your...				
					
			
					
				
															
					
					 by Tania Henderson | Jul 18, 2012 | Abuse, Anxiety, Communication, Depression, Happiness, Self-esteem, Uncategorized
In the last article about the snare of suffering, I talked about how comparing a personal struggle to another’s can be helpful at times, but more often than not can serve as a way to minimize pain or create judgement. I was intrigued by this blog where  other...